Wednesday, February 07, 2007

Plans are a changing.....

I am very disappointed and very upset now. I am now not going to NY for my Dad's surgery he said does not make sense for me to just sit with him if he is in the hospital. And he cannot spend the time with me that he would like. I understand but he is my only parent and I need him.

I put the ticket on hold and after he recovers a bit, I would go up to NY. So told him a good time for me is between classes so b/n 3/5 and 3/12. And maybe a bit warmer during that time.

Just wanted to be there with him. So now will be so nervous all day and have to wait to get the phone call. Hard to wait. I just wanted to be there with him. Even if just sitting there with him. He does not understand.

5 comments:

Wilma said...

I'm sorry to hear that, Dori. Sounds like "Mrs. Control-Everything" is at it again. :(

Dori (Aviva's mommy) said...

YUP:_(!

Rebecca said...

I am so sorry. Hugs.

Michelle said...

I'm so sorry; I know how much you wanted to be there with your dad during his surgery. I know it'll be hard to be in FL and not NY while he's in surgery.

Het said...

I know exactly how hard it is to be so far away during such a difficult time. Many hugs. I'm sorry that she's keeping you from being there during such an important time.

Your dad knows how much you care and that's what will be important that day.

HUGS!